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Denelle DeFer's avatar

As I approach 71, I am happy with my well-being. I am just over the flu, my family member died and was revived, his wife found out she’s got cancer, our 20 year old cat went missing and another friend has blood cancer. And so it goes. I am involved in supportive love in action toward them. But I have a steadiness born in me last year. I have a habit to pause and respond instead of react. It has served me to remain engaged yet remain unattached to outcomes. For an empath, this is game that pays rich dividends.

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Jeff Gill's avatar

Glad you’re feeling better, Denelle. Engaged but not attached to outcomes is an excellent way to be.

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Denelle DeFer's avatar

4 Laws of Attraction by Ruiz’s started my quest to not be disappointed. It works🪷

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Jeff Gill's avatar

Just looked them up:

1. Be Impeccable With Your Word.

2. Don’t Take Anything Personally.

3. Don’t Make Assumptions.

4. Always Do Your Best.

Very good stuff

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Jill Reeves's avatar

The song Virginia that was in the YouTube video is weirdly intriguing. It would make a great musical; even her voice sounds like she could be the lead. I’m going through old letters reading about my angst filled past as a teenager so the song seems appropriate.

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Jeff Gill's avatar

Glad you enjoyed it, Jill, and that the timing was good. I’d never heard of the band before Friday.

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