One.
In my family, neurotypical isn’t typical. Schedules and predictability are important to everyone. They are especially important to the wonderful people I live with. So I know the major things that are going to happen each day. Some of them are awesome. Some of them are things to get through. A few years ago, I decided that, instead of having some days I like and some days I don’t, it would be good to have a reason to look forward to every day of the week.
I love Thursdays because I go for a long run and – new for 2022! – I take the 10 year-old to the climbing gym and hang out with one of the dads there.
Do you want to notice something to love about every day? Here’s worksheet for you:
I love Monday because _____________________!
I love Tuesday because _____________________!
I love Wednesday because _____________________!
I love Thursday because _____________________!
I love Friday because _____________________!
I love Saturday because _____________________!
I love Sunday because _____________________!
Two.
The abdominal snowman.
Three.
My favourite lyric so far this year: You're down to earth, but not this one
This was the entire TREE hangout last night:
Just me, my dorky face and a pint of American pale ale.
Two thoughts:
I can do better at organising. I have already put some things in motion for March.
I’m going to do it in such a way that, if you’re not in North Wales, you don’t get bombarded with notices.
In 2022, out of necessity, I’ve been burning the candle at both ends and a little in the middle. Having a couple hours just to read and drink a couple pints of good beer did me a lot of good. It was time well wasted.
Grow slowly
Jeff
I really like the idea of scheduling something to look forward to during the week! It is easy to look forward to the weekend, but the weekdays need a little positive attention too. I've gone back to leisure reading, which I have missed out on for many years because I have been focused on reading self-development books. Which certainly have their place in the regular rotation, but there is something so relaxing about knowing that for the next hour or two, I am going to be doing nothing but immersing myself in another world.
Also, abdominal snowman is hilarious. ;-)
I love your approach to the days of the week. I typically struggle with Tuesdays, Wednesdays, and Thursdays. I like this tact and I'm gonna try it.
Also, the abdominal snowman. Ha. : )
Also, also, I love your bravery (yes, to me) of organizing a meet up. That to me is something scary -- because what if no one shows up. But you showed up! With a smile and a pint and a no problem if no one else came and I aspire to that!