One.
On Friday evening I set aside an hour for wasting time. I read some of Professor Francesca Stavrakopoulou’s God: An Anatomy. I have no reason to read this book for my job or for parenting or for TREE. I’m just curious. One of the footnotes led me to an article on thetorah.com on story about Balaam the prophet that was painted on an ancient wall.
None of this is obviously useful to my life. But it will be useful somehow. It was fun because I’m kind of a nerd about religion. It made my brain buzz in a good way.
I could have spent my time scrolling a social media feed. Too often I do. And that’s fine, I guess. But the thing about the reading I did is that it was driven by my curiosity. When I’m on the socials, it’s driven by someone else’s algorithm. And those algorithms almost always leave me feeling flat or angry.
I want to get better at wasting time. I want to be in control of it. I want social media algorithms to have less influence on me.
This is how I would like to waste my time:
With friends and family
Reading books
Hiking, running, jumping, climbing
Drawing
Listening to music
I want the good brain buzz.
I feel a change coming on. Is it just me or are you feeling it too?
UPDATE:
I wrote this post on Saturday. I’m writing this update on Tuesday night. The first change I’ve made – don’t laugh – is: I’ve stopped taking my phone into the bathroom with me. What I told myself was that I would read something useful on the can. The reality was I scrolled through something useless. It’s a good change for me, and easy. I’m liking it.
Two.
A bicycle built for poo.
Three.
This is not a once-for-all event:
The TREE hangout is tonight!
7:30 PM at the Albion in Conwy, North Wales! I’m ready (i.e. if no one shows up, I’ve got a good William Gibson novel on the go.)
Grow slowly
Jeff
Those sound like my favorite ways to waste time.
As a wife, I am pleased with your recent change. If only I could get my husband to do the same LOL.
I am striving to waste more time reading and painting. If the paints are out on the table, or if I take my painting kit to my boyfriend's on the weekend, I sometimes really do it! And I love it, it is satisfying and fun. Am I still watching reels on Instagram of painting techniques... yes, but if I apply them after then its a whole other thing isn't it? I'm learning and trying new things and now the algorithm is working in my favour. ( I think.... )